Charm is a tough racket under different perspectives. However, you never know how charming you can be! Welcome to charm school! Here there’s no need for love potions, voodoo dolls, magic spells etc… What here teaches is a set of gifts that has already been pre installed inside you the moment you are born! Now is the time to push the right buttons and unleashed it!
Pay Attention: If you meet someone of your interest, put on your investigation skills. Ask potential questions that will lead them in revealing their background. Maintain eye contact with them when they answer you questions. If your attention is drifting away, just pretend you are listening by nodding or grunting in agreement. You can learn vital information that decide whether you want to know more about the person.
The Eye of the Tiger: Using your eyes is never inappropriate. After all, everyone is allowed to look. Thus, using eye contact to charm is a relatively safe bet. This eye game is alluring and can be powerful. Once you established contact, look away. Repeat this exercise, and finally look at the person in the eye and smile at them. Remember not to stare as it will scare away your target audience.
A Touchy Subject: Touching someone can be charming but you must do it the right way or you’ll end up in a bad ending. If your engaged in conversation, you can use touch to heighten the already romantic mood. The key is to make it look as natural or accidental as possible. Touch is one of our precious and sensitive senses, so never touch or grab someone forcefully.
The Body’s Secret Language: In order to develop a charming body language, you should practise the mirroring technique. This is based on the mindset of people getting attracted to like-minded individuals. So if you literally copy their body language, you can quickly convey that you have a lot in common and want to know them better.
Speak Easy: Our voices have unlimited power to soothe and seduce. Once you learn how to make most of what you are given, it’s only a matter of time you can put someone under your spell by speaking. Never raise your voice and by speaking in muted tone you’ll force them to pay attention to you.
Witty Ways to Win a Lover: There’s nothing as sexy as intellect and humour. Intellect is very appealing because it challenges others to be better and smarter people. You will be able to enjoy verbal sparring if you sharpen your wits, which is the standard rite of passage for any great relationship.
Be Playful: Let’s see if we are on the same tone: flirting is not a serious pastime right? Flirting is about exploring the kid in yourself. If you think about it, it’s really the last form of noncompetitive play allowed to adults. So remember not to put any undue pressure on yourself just treat flirting as games and fun.