The two of you have shared several wonderful dates, you’ve talked on the phone nonstop for several weeks, both of you even shared a toothbrush. Everything is sailing smoothly,
but there’s one thing on your mind: Is this love or just a passing fling?
Well, the love question has boggled the minds of many singles. It seems that no matter how much fun you’re having with your new friend, you’re always plagued by doubts as whether he or she is a keeper or a temporary pastime. As much as we all wished to understand our emotions, this is only natural. We don’t want to be led astray and try to
prepare ourselves for good-byes or long, lingering hellos. Guessing about the future is all well and good, provided you don’t forget to enjoy the present moment. So if you’re having a hard time coming up with the solution to your question, it’s wise to close your eyes and let the wheel of fortune spin its course. When the time comes, you will know exactly how you truly feel without having to second guess yourself.
Let’s be realistic. There will be many of you who want to know if they’re in love right now, or at least have a vague idea about what your feelings mean. Here are some love clues that may just give some indication about the direction of your relationship is heading.
Lust or Love
In the beginning stages of your relationship you may feel those special feelings around your newfound companion. You may feel like calling all the times, kissing or touching every time both of you meet. This could very well be love, or it could be that you simply have the hots for someone and admire his or her physical prowess. Lust and love is just a thin line between them, if it’s visible at all. Read on to find out if what you feel is real of if it’s just sexual.
What words come to mind?
Everyone talks with friends about their dates from time to time. Come on, admit it; you know you have. Think back of your last conversation. What words did you used to describe your new companion? Did most have to do with this person’s physical appearance of did you discuss other qualities such as a great sense of humor and other favorable personality traits? While being attracted to someone is great in its own right, you may not be smitten with the love bug just yet.
Love Them or Leave Them?
If you date told you that he or she is against pre marriage sex, would you bolt in a nanosecond or stick around to see what developed? In order to analyze the strength of your feelings, you must imagine that this hypothetical scenario is a probability. Visualize yourself receiving the news and try to determine your first reaction. If you’re horrified at the prospect, you may be involved in a strictly sexuality liaison. But if you feel calm and anxious for the wedding day, you’re clearly harboring serious emotions. Once again, having a pure sexual relationship is not the end of the world, provided that what you’re really looking for.
Is it in the Kiss?
When kissing your date, do your mind wandered abot what sexual phase you will enter into next, or do you simply get engrossed in the moment. Too much sexual thoughts whenever you’re around your date is a clear sign that you may be in lust rather than in love. If you enjoy the dating process- the long walks, lingering kisses, stimulating conversations, warn embraces-as much as the prospect of sexual relations, then you maybe entering the first pangs of true love.