Always heard of the adage, “A Guy has to be bad to get the Girl”? It may seem true at first and you must know what kind of girl you want to get. How often when you’re on the street and you see a really hot girl together with a scoundrel, well at least you think he is.

The guy has total disrespect to woman, bad and look like a womanizer to you. He is nothing like the prince charming in fairy tales yet the girl is being mesmerized by him. So you think to yourself, what the point of becoming a nice guy when the girls don’t appreciate you? In fact the girl is currently at a shelter not a house. So be patient, and starting building your house.

Well “Nice Guys” might not always begin first but it definitely will not finish last.
Women nowadays are looking deeper into the character trails and attributes of a man rather than just the outer shell. They tend to focus on the vision of the future rather than the pleasure.

So if you think that nice guy with woman doesn’t work. You might need to reconsider. But you have to be in the correct categories of “Nice Guys” in order to enjoy the fruit of your labour.

There are normally two categories of “Nice Guys”. One type is that they behaved in such a way that projects them as insecure. They have a weak identity and so little self-esteem, that they base their own worth on what others think of them. These guys are at the mercy of everyone else in their lives and they try to constantly please the people around them hoping they’ll continue to think highly of them, so they can feel good about themselves. These guys have the mentality of they expect to be rewarded with the same kind of treatment thinking on how well they had treated others.

But when they do not receive back the same treatment, they feel upset and angry at their failure to please the women they want. The feeling then turned into resentment of women they want to please and it will grow until it burst into rage and anger, either directed at others, themselves, or both. Such mentality can weaken their self respect, make them fall into self-pity and misery. It also makes them hard to get along with and cause others to not want to be around them. You definitely do not want to fall into that category.

The other type is those who are straightforward and honest, especially when they have to go against the wishes of others and disappoint them at the same time doing it with kindness and sensitivity. They respect women and agree that they have an equal standing in society.  They stop being agreeable but tactful and responsible. They displayed the ideal characteristic of a good husband and future father.  This is what modern women are actually looking for. So to all “Nice Guys” out there we may not get as many girlfriends as we hoped but we definitely will have many wives! So continue to be the “Nice Guy”!