Ever wonder why some women stick to a guy even though she knew that there will be no fairy liked ending? Even if the guy abuse her, use and treat her badly, she continued to stay with him. And when friend go over and told her that she should leave the man and begin on a new chapter of her life, the women will just find the lamest excuses you could’ve even hear, like “I can’t do that, it not that easy because my DVDs are still in his house!”

But the fact that some woman dare not step out of her comfort zone is understandable because one of the primary causes which is they are too lazy, yes? No just kidding, actually it’s the fear of loneliness. The fear of loneliness has become the motivation for women to stay with men who do not treat them well.

However there is more to it. The other reason that keeps the women with the man is because of “Substantiation”. Those men were able to create an emotional compulsion which is enough to make the women hook with it through the process of sexual pressure and emotional bonding, getting women linking their self esteem to the man’s approval.

Because of this, being with these men is like smoking, even you know it’s bad for your health yet you just continue and say to yourself it’s not that easy to quit.  And when these women are treated worse, they desperately want to please the man more again. These women will rationalize away the bad evidences of the man they are with by turning blind eyes past their bad deeds and find reasons to accept them.

“The women will just find the lamest excuses you could’ve even hear, like “I can’t do that, it not that easy because my DVDs are still in his house!”

So for the guys who want to be the cigarette, it’s not your duty to convince the women they won’t feel lonely anymore if they are with you…It is to get them addicted to you emotionally. This is will be achieved by flirting and sexual pressure, creating of certain rapport and strong emotional connections. And the best catch is, you do not need to be a jerk.

You will have to understand that flirting is how you create sexual tension in your interactions with women and rapport is how you create the strong emotional craving. Becoming an expert of utilizing such skills will get the women beg on their knees, kill for you, and even die for you! Maybe that’s too exaggerated. Maybe perhaps just make you indispensable to her?

The secret is to make them feel good, comfortable and correlate those feelings with you. If you wishes to find out more of those secrets or shall I called it the killer lady manual, please continue to browse through the archives posts for more minutiae.