Always waiting for him to make the first move? Shy to take the initiative? Or have the saying “Man should take the lead in kissing” sink into your head? In this era, nothing counts better than to get hold of your own happiness. So why let the golden opportunity slip away?

In fact, most guy like it if his partner takes the active role in kissing. You could make the first few moves and see his reaction.  Make sure he is comfortable with them and with you. Lure him into it and give him a chance. After the guy kisses, you can curl your arms around his neck for emotions to groom deeply. Give him the chance of the first passionate kiss and ignite the fireworks!

1. Getting ready for the moment.  Establish a sense of trust between the two of you, maybe by telling him a secret about you that no one else knows. (Just make sure it isn’t a secret that may turn him off or make him feel disgusted by you).
2. Start Flirting. Smile a lot, touch your hair or around your neck and shoulder and listen to him attentively. Show him that you’re interested and are happy around him. Hopefully, it will make him more comfortable and want to be around you more.
3. Seduce him with your lips. Apply translucent lip gloss or those with sweet favor optimize the kissing process and the taste.
4. Feel and touch him. The first step towards kissing is touching. Make any excuse to touch his arm, his hands, or his face. A lot of guys like holding hands. Hugging is strongly encouraged!
5. Be frank about your feeling and tell him how you feel. He will get the point that you like him. Don’t be shy because then he won’t follow through. If you like him, make it clear to him without being label as desperate. If you are acting excessively hard to get, it will make him fell he hasn’t got a chance, he gives up and move on. In the end both of you miss out!
6. Searching the right moment. This is something you will feel when you know its right. Often times this is after a nice evening and it is winding down.
7. Start slow. If he’s too shy to make the first move, give him a peck on the cheek and slowly work your way to the lips when you feel the time is right.
8. Say nothing and wait for the reaction. If he is surprised (or terrified) take no enemies, and kiss him again. If he is pleased, great. If he is angry, then abort the situation – no one would like someone to keep on trying to kiss that person if they’re uncomfortable. You should be mature enough to step back. Otherwise, move on to the next step.
9. Pull back and look down, then look into his eyes. If he liked the kiss you’ll most likely kiss again. Look at his lips; he will get the signal you want more!
10. If this continues for awhile, maybe you should try moving onto a more passionate kiss. Then kiss him one last time then touch his lips back!
11. Enjoyed the silent moment. When you’re done, laying down is one thing to do and not talk.
12. Don’t get into sex immediately after your first kiss.
13. Guys like kissing especially it’s the lady taking the initiative. There’s no doubt. Sometimes you have to make the first move to break that awkward silence.
14. Depending on the guy sometimes showing compassion with a guy who doesn’t like you will get him back but try to take it easy. If he doesn’t like you then he doesn’t, get over it.
15. Read his action. If he takes you away from the crowd or to a quiet place while at a dance or the movies, that’s an indication of him wanting for it.
16. If he make the first move and attempt to kiss you. Hold him back, and put a finger to his lips. When he became awkward, move in and kiss him back. This naughty move will make him go hysterical!
17. Direct your attention to someone else, slowly look at him, then deep into his eyes, then very slowly move your face toward his if he slowly backs up make it look like you saw something in his hair or if you are the brave type just move fast and kiss him.
18. If a guy is always hugging you and/or putting his arm around you then he definitely likes you and wants to kiss you. He is just nervous and wants you to make the first move.
19. Remain positive. Don’t worried or think too much! Just think about him… all the wonderful moment and enjoyed the process.
20. Be bold and attempt to French kiss him, it will make the process more passionate.
21. Explore other area, kiss his neck, ear lop or attempt to give him a soft bite will definitely make him wild.
22. Control your breathing and a bit of sound effects like soft moaning, will definitely stir him on and show that both of you are enjoying him.
23. Make sure the guy isn’t nervous, try to assure him it alright and guide him along the way. Praising him will also lower the tension level.
24. Don’t be too hesitant, if you’re both leaning in for a kiss, don’t pull away! It will make it look like you don’t want to kiss him!
25. Remember, guys are also shy too.  If there is something between you two, and you still haven’t kissed, it means he wants to, but is shy or nervous.

So girls, next time when you’re waiting for that kiss from a guy, why not be the one to give it first. You have nothing to lose anyway.