“Can you see the wonderful future we’ll have if we are together?” Words, wielded wisely, can be a powerful instrument of seduction. The key, however, is making your inferences subtle. Say it with seduction using this passion-packed phrase and it will have a captivating effect. Why not add the extra ingredient into the normal conversation to have a different aspect of getting things around. Try considering the five make-or-break romantic situations below.

SITUATION 1
You’re asking her out for the first time

DON’T SAY
“Want to go out to dinner on Saturday night?”

TRY
“Want to go out for Japanese food on Saturday night?”

WHY IT WORKS
You are creating an experience she can visualize. Unlike a blank proposal, it engages and puts her in the moment; she’ll see you two sharing “Wasabi”.

SITUATION 2
Your entrees have arrived; you’d like to offer her a piece of meat

DON’T SAY
“Want some fillet?”

TRY
“Want a taste of my fillet?”

WHY IT WORKS
“Taste” is sexy. She could be thinking how you might taste each other later. Other triggers: “bite,” “Juicy,” and “tender.” And never offer her a spoonful of ice-cream, only a lick.

SITUATION 3
You want her to go home with you.

DON’T SAY
“Let’s go back to my place.”

TRY
“Let’s go back to my place because I have a great view.”

WHY IT WORKS
The magic word: “because.” People comply 66 percent more often when they hear a phrase with ‘because’ in it.

SITUATION 4
You want to move your make-out session to the bedroom

DON’T SAY
“I really want to make love with you.”

TRY
“Can you imagine how great it’d feel if we made love?”

WHY IT WORKS
Reframing your desire as a question forces her to think about it. The sensory word “imagine” reinforces the visual picture. If what she sees doesn’t repulse her, you’re in.

SITUATION 5
Its 3 months later, and you want to add more spice to your sex life.

DON’T SAY
“Are you into bondage?”

TRY
“Could we try tying each other up?”

WHY IT WORKS
Terms like ‘try’ and ‘maybe’ give the woman a chance to say yes without feeling pressured.

So next time when you about to speak something, pause for a while and then add it the sexy words to maximize your chances. Have other better words? Share with us now!