One of the friend had asked me on the behaviour of women. So I’ve decided to take a moment out from the “Pick Up Week” to post a topic with regard on a attempt to explain the complexities of women as requested. I understand his concern as it’s essential to understand why women behave in such way in order to start a relationship or maintain one.

I guess a lot of men will want to have a better understanding about their mates. The below are the most common asked questions by man. Most ladies must have heard of at least one of these complaints from a man, whether it was in the heat of a squabble or just a comment mentioned playfully by a male friend. Guys, you don’t need to be a psychologist to understand women.

Why Can’t She Just Stop Constantly Nag And Bitch At Me?
Just because they are women, that doesn’t mean that they enjoy and deserve the household duties any more that you do. If the “everyday task’ were to equally distributed, (which often are not), you’d never have to ask this question again.  She wants to get her point across but was worried that you will forget. Sometimes, giving back her a taste of her own medicine would have a revealing effect. But beware it also maybe a sign of insecurity and menopause!

Why Do Women Have To Stay On The Phone For Hours?
Men and women have entirely opposite ways of approaching the telephone. Most males, unless it’s a new found love or a close old buddy, like to stick to the facts and make their calls as productive as possible. They will love to end the call as soon as possible, and try to get the most across with the least amount of words.

Women, however, not only have a wider range of topics to chat about but they also maintain friendships for longer periods of time. Basically, they can continue on conservation on any topic under the sun as such they are often label as verbal creature. Even, they knew you are not interested or bothered, they continue to start their voice repeating machine and go on and one till the battery is flat. It’s just the way life goes, so get over it.

Why Must Women Gossip?
In fact, including myself to certain extend too. Actually not all, but most females have a need to know what’s happening around them at all times. They’re not necessarily trying to be meddlesome; poking their noses into everything but it’s more a matter of being informed. Women are constantly searching for what’s beneath the surface, so as long as your lady isn’t too tangled up in her web of tittle-tattle, it should be nothing but good clean fun.

Why Does She Get So Jealous Of My Lady Friends?
Some obvious reasons that she get jealous is that she really doesn’t trust you or she wants to control you, etc. Often all this reason can be found on yourself by reflecting on your behaviour and be a bit more sensitive. But chances are, she isn’t resentful of the particular woman at your work or school, but rather of your attention and time that the lady is getting.

Men have some very misconceived notions concerning women and jealousy and felt it women nature to behave in such way. However sometime, it grows from a slight envy into the much more fearsome feeling. However it can be cured before it erupted. Make up for lost time by renting a movie and cuddling up on the couch, or plan a surprise weekend getaway camping under the stars. Use her jealousy to your advantage and all will be restored.

Why Does My Wife Hand Me The Baby The Minute I Walk In The Door?
You can argue that you have a tough and tired day at work and expected to be understood by her. But if you spent  an entire day alone, not only taking care of the baby but also keeping the house clean and tidy, doing the laundry, running the house errands, and preparing the dinner before 6, you may want to consider that if she is having a easy job.

If you and your wife are constantly arguing over who’s the most tired and who’s more deserving of being baby-free, take a day off work to “play house” while your wife spends the entire day out. It’s a guaranteed eye-opener, and your wife doesn’t want anything more than a day off!

And remember what you’re actually debating over: who gets to spend time with your child. Child upbringing and growing up stage is very important and have a huge impact in their future life. You do not want your child to not recognise you or cry when see you as if you’re a stranger. Bear in mind, they only stay that small and innocent for so long, so both of you should enjoy every minute of it while you all can.

Why Does She Spend So Much Money?
I have to say that I know quite a few men who are guilty of pouring money on area of shopping sprees or other area like gambling etc.

Ladies, too, always seem to have several pairs of shoes, cosmetics  and the so called “necessities” that stack up the charge card bills. But sometime it’s also the women who most commonly take care of the household’s expenses including paying the bills and buying groceries. From children’s school expenses, as well as the purchasing of clothes, holiday gifts and the daily extras that add up, it not overbroad if a woman spends $900 a week, but pays the electric, conservancy and household bills, and maybe occasionally purchasing new dress on sale to pamper herself.

Men often feel a bit disgruntled when she spend his money but is completely alright when they themselves are spending on treats of their friend or simply enjoying themselves. So the next time you’re about to reprimand your gal for coming home with too many bags to carry in one trip, and only two are for her and the rest are groceries, don’t jump on her about spending habits. Besides, women like buying for others, so there could be something special for you in one of those bags.

Why Doesn’t She Get Along With My Family Members, Especially My Parents?
Most women, when comes to meeting “the parents,” feel very apprehensive about being polite and minding their manners, as much like guys do. However, there’s a certain tension that makes a woman feel like she’s taking something away from your parents, something that belongs to them, especially your mother.

Of course, many mothers are excited to meet the women their sons are dating, and they’re more than happy to pass their son to her. But there is still a very unique first exchange between the love of your life and the other love of your life. Prepared your mates mentally on what to expect from your parents and what’s their likes and dislikes. You may wish to want to introduce her to your siblings first and get their support. It will act as a supporting pillar for her. Meanwhile, start putting up goods words with your parents occasionally and this will slowly built up the sentiment before that big day.

Most ladies will probably find the above list of female stereotypes degrading and too general but you just can’t be nodding in agreement. Although many of your questions may be featured here, but hopefully the listed question may stitched together your mate’s complex puzzle. Maybe it will also assuage one disagreement, one misunderstanding, or wounded feeling.  So next time you’re about to attach a cliché to a woman, why not just take a moment to think about why she is acting in that manner.

Conclusion
It may be in your best interest to stop stereotyping women and instead try and understand where they’re coming from.  Do you have a better answer for the questions? Or simply have other questions to ask. Either gender are welcome to submit them on the comment to through the submit form.  It’s best to hear from both sexes!