A woman wants a man to feel the same way about her when she pours her affection to him. But sometime even when you have drained out your affection juice, what you get is just a polite courteous response and no romance. This could be really frustrating right.

The problem may not always lied on us men. Sometimes women play a huge part too. However, instead of trying to do nothing or continuing your applied affection on him even harder, you should make him feel attracted to you.

You have to bear in mind that you will be competing with many other women seeking his attention and applying their affection on him too. There are a few tips on what you can do to make him adore you, and only you.

Let Man Be The Chaser
Men are always chasing after what they want and they get a thrill from it. Sport cars, luxurious accessories and attractive women are some of the things men love to have. Men are actually seeking the thrill and excitement in their chase for these things and will tend to treasure them more. What a woman can take advantage of this characteristics of man is by playing a little hard to get.

If you have just started dating someone or even if you have been dating someone for a while withdrawing from the relationship a little would create a feeling in the man that he doesn’t have you completely yet. This would make him want to seek you more. And don’t always agree to all his dating schedules. Pretend to be busy at times and reject him sometimes make him work harder to get into your life. He will find you more interesting if he has to work hard to get you instead of you pouring out all your affection at him.

Stop Being Indecisive
A man hates it when women are being indecisive. Most women are guilty of too focused on their man to care for anything else when they are together. When going for a dinner date or movie, women always either reply, “You decide or anything”. This frustrated the man as after when the man make the decision, the woman will whine about it. Men in fact like to take off the burden of always thinking of plans and ideas for women. So next time when he plans a date let him know what you enjoy and what you would like to share with him. This will make him find you more interesting. Take up some of the decision making, and give him suggestion on where you intend to go will have him an easier time.

Developed A Confident Personality
Always asking him if you look fat or are you pretty is a big turned off to man. Confidence women is one of the type of women men loves. If you are not worthy of his attention he will let you know. It’s will be an insult to men if you’re not confidence of yourself as men will feel that they are making a wrong choice. A man will treat you the way you think about yourself. So show your confidence and charisma to make you the special one for him.

So next time instead of just throwing all your affection onto him and not getting back your deserved attention. Pause and examine if the problem lies with you. Affection is one of the key but you have to use it sparingly.