Ever seen a woman who doesn’t like to talk? You don’t! Women are made to talk and they enjoy talking. After a lifetime of dating, you should have at least the need of a hearing aid to prove it! However, there are times, when you’re going to engaged serious conversations with her though.

But you don’t need to get be vexed on when such conversation is going to be thrown at you or end up arguing or debating over the same exchange you thought you’ve already sorted out. In fact, you can master the art of handling such serious conversation and turned them into your favour. Let me bring forth the top questions every woman is bound to ask, and when she’ll most likely to pull the plug.

Should We Live Together?

When it will mostly happen?

If she’s been complaining that she has to leave early or walking around with her underwear in her bag.

Why is she asking this?

After too many nights of either her place or yours would unconsciously make both of you blurt out the idea of living together. But it’s often her suggestion as women are being more inclined to demand momentum.

Your responses: If you’re also certain about it, call the movers, and good luck to you. If not, tell her how great it will be about living together but explained to her that you’ve always lived with roommates/family, and you want some time to live alone. You want to have a definite degree of independence before making the move. This should creates a favourable environment for expressing your reservations, about which you should be specific.

What Will Our Future Be Like?

When it will mostly happen?

After you’ve had sex.

Why is she asking this?

She needs to be certain that you’re really interested in her and the potential of you to fall in love with her. Often, the man who is really interested and really not interested has a strange ability to behave identically.

Your responses: If this is going somewhere: A slight deception like—”I’m glad we’re talking about this, because I want you to know I am really interested in you”—should work. She needs to hear that you like her specifically, not just that you like having a little company when you’re alone.

Tell Me About Your Ex-loves!

When it will mostly happen:

When she begins relating lengthy anecdotes about your exes and in fact is lurking you into the trap of mutual trust and sharing.

Why is she asking this?

Your girlfriend is obsessed, not with your exes, or even with you, but with herself. She’s not really interested in your past relationship instead she’s interested in what they say about her.

Your response:

Let her do her own logic by emphasize your love experience has been in the company of beautiful, smart and talent women. She will have this mirror reflection thinking of-He’s dated women who were beautiful, talent and smart, therefore, I am beautiful, talented and smart too! When discuss on how things ended, present yourself as the man who has never found the right woman to love and understand him but also the man who has yet to find a woman truly worthy of his best behaviour.  Likewise, she will give you her best then.

Tell Me More About Your Family?

When it will mostly happen?

When you’ve been together long enough like around 3 months into the relationship.

Why is she asking this?

She’d like to checkout your background and she needs a good back-story to confirm this.

Your response:

You could start with your family photos. Then, at family gatherings, share sensitive “observations” with her to show that you’re emotionally in touch with your family: “My father is a wonderful husband as what my mom has always told me.”

When Are We Getting Married?

When it will mostly happen?

If you’re dating a girl who is

1) definitely the marrying kind;

2) more than 2 years have passed;

3) or she’s over 30.

Why is she asking this?

Your girlfriend is cantankerous at herself for having potentially wasted years of her youth and not having any security.

Your response: She wants to know when she’s getting her deserved engagement ring. If your answer isn’t weighed in carats or equivalent, she’s not interested.

Why Don’t We Talk As Much Before?

When it will mostly happen?

She starts to show unexplained silences on her part and don’t initiate any conversation anymore.

Why is she asking this?

If your flamboyant streaming of words and opinions has died down, she’ll feel that the once hot, cavernous vein of your relationship has cooled.

Your response:

You will be tempted to apply the male logic and ask her directly what she wants to talk about. But using your male logic on female emotion is like throwing gas on a fire and you’re bound to get burned by it. So, market yourself everyday to ensure she keeps buying by giving her longer and constructive answers, ask her more complex questions and debate about any ideas that you have read about. This way, she would continue to be tame.

The next time when your partner engaged you for a serious relationship conversation, you can be assured that you are well prepared to handle them.