The final part of the love, relationship and dating thesis is here! Well, I hope you enjoyed the first part and you should really take the time and read through them. It’s meaningful and I think all human with feelings should at least know about it.
Enjoyed through the continuation of this dating thesis and take a deep breath to slowly reflect in your life whether the same scenario has occurred to you. You reap what you sow, and if you can’t even have the patient of finished reading through it, I think it hard for you to even maintain a relationship.
*有一对情侣，相约下班後去用餐、逛街，可是女孩因为公司会议而延误了， 当她冒著雨赶到的时候已经迟到了30多分钟， 他的男朋友很不高兴的说： 你每次都这样，现在我甚么心情也没了， 我以後再也不会等你了！ 刹那间，女孩终於决堤崩溃了， 她心里在想：或许，他们再也没有未来了
There is a couple who made a promise to eat dinner and shop after work together. However, something cropped up at the girl’s office so she had push back the meeting with her boyfriend. When she arrived at the destination, she was running late for half an hour. Her boyfriend was very unhappy. He disregarded her being soaked by rain and warned her, “Why are you always late? I don’t have the mood to shop with you now. I won’t even bother to wait for you anymore!” At this moment, the girl burst into tears, she thought silently that maybe their future is gone.
*同样的在同一个地点，另一对情侣也面临同样的处境； 女孩赶到的时候也迟到了半个钟头，他的男朋友说：我想你一定忙坏了吧！ 接著他为女孩拭去脸上的雨水，并且脱去外套盖在女孩身上， 此刻，女孩流泪了, 但是流过她脸颊的泪却是温馨的。
At the same place, another couple faced the same scenario. The girl was also late for half and hour and she was dripping wet. Her boyfriend said, “I think you must be tired after a long day of work.” After saying, he helped her to wipe away the rain and placed his cloak on her. At this point, the girl burst into tears too, but the tears are tears of happiness.
Have you realised anything? Love and hate is determined by ourselves.
Love includes knowing to be forgiving and tolerant, many things depends on you decide to feel.
Did you get the meaning?
When someone is in love with you, you will think he is not such a bad person.
But that doesn’t mean that you have to choose him.
Everyone always says, I will only date someone who loves me very much. However, when the other party asks you what your definition of love is, you cannot give an answer. This is because you do not even know it yourself.
That’s the reason! Most people have the mindset that you will be able to find your dream partner. Eventually, you will realize how foolish you are. If you have not try dating with before, how would you know you will not fall in love with the person? Actually, the power of love can only be discovered when you have been through ups and downs with your partner. Maybe everyone still hopes to find their desired soul mate. But have you ever think of the people who have been contributing a lot for you and you have no sense of their feelings? Stop being oblivious! Maybe the person has been waiting for a long time for you.
When you are in love with someone, love them up to eight marks. All your hopes and desires are only worth eight marks. Leave the remaining marks for yourself.
If you love the person to the max, you will only tire the both of you out. By then, all love between the two of you will be gone.
Remember, do not be more than sixty percent drunk, eat only to be seventh full, love someone only up to eight marks.
There was this time when a friend asked me a question, “What does it takes to love a person?” I smiled and said, “Actually, different person have different perspective. If you give the good advice is called inspiration. If you give the wrong advice is called misinterpretation. If that happens, the situation will get worse!
If you are still doubtful about love, here are some advices for you,
Loving someone needs you to be understanding and consoling,
Knows when to apologize and be thankful,
Knows when to admit your mistakes and change them,
To be caring and gentle,
Accept not tolerant,
Forgiving not giving in,
Supportive not controlling,
Asking not interrogating,
Telling not yelling,
Unforgettable not forgetful,
It’s to exchange feelings and not answering to each other,
Pray for each other ,
And not asking favours from each other,
Can be romantic but not wasteful,
Hold hands anytime but not breaking up easily.
So I believe this love, relationship and dating thesis will defintely enriching your attitute towards on handling and maintaining a blissful and happy relationship. So stay true to yourself and may you find your true love as in those fairy tales. Do send in your love story in order to be feature in Lovebirds.