The final part of the love, relationship and dating thesis is here! Well, I hope you enjoyed the first part and you should really take the time and read through them. It’s meaningful and I think all human with feelings should at least know about it.

Enjoyed through the continuation of this dating thesis and take a deep breath to slowly reflect in your life whether the same scenario has occurred to you. You reap what you sow, and if you can’t even have the patient of finished reading through it, I think it hard for you to even maintain a relationship.

*有一对情侣，相约下班後去用餐、逛街，可是女孩因为公司会议而延误了， 当她冒著雨赶到的时候已经迟到了30多分钟， 他的男朋友很不高兴的说： 你每次都这样，现在我甚么心情也没了， 我以後再也不会等你了！ 刹那间，女孩终於决堤崩溃了， 她心里在想：或许，他们再也没有未来了

There is a couple who made a promise to eat dinner and shop after work together. However, something cropped up at the girl’s office so she had push back the meeting with her boyfriend. When she arrived at the destination, she was running late for half an hour. Her boyfriend was very unhappy. He disregarded her being soaked by rain and warned her, “Why are you always late? I don’t have the mood to shop with you now. I won’t even bother to wait for you anymore!” At this moment, the girl burst into tears, she thought silently that maybe their future is gone.

*同样的在同一个地点，另一对情侣也面临同样的处境； 女孩赶到的时候也迟到了半个钟头，他的男朋友说：我想你一定忙坏了吧！ 接著他为女孩拭去脸上的雨水，并且脱去外套盖在女孩身上， 此刻，女孩流泪了, 但是流过她脸颊的泪却是温馨的。

At the same place, another couple faced the same scenario. The girl was also late for half and hour and she was dripping wet. Her boyfriend said, “I think you must be tired after a long day of work.” After saying, he helped her to wipe away the rain and placed his cloak on her. At this point, the girl burst into tears too, but the tears are tears of happiness.

你体会到了吗？
*其实爱、恨往往只是在我们的一念之间！
Have you realised anything? Love and hate is determined by ourselves.
爱不仅要懂得宽容更要及时， 很多事可能只是在於你心境的转变罢了！
Love includes knowing to be forgiving and tolerant, many things depends on you decide to feel.
懂了吗？
Did you get the meaning?
当有个人爱上你，而你也觉得他不错。
When someone is in love with you, you will think he is not such a bad person.
那并不代表你会选择他。
But that doesn’t mean that you have to choose him.

*我们总说：我要找一个你很爱很爱的人，才会谈恋爱。
但是当对方问你，怎样才算是很爱很爱的时候，
你可能无法回答他，因为你自己也不知道。

Everyone always says, I will only date someone who loves me very much. However, when the other party asks you what your definition of love is, you cannot give an answer. This is because you do not even know it yourself.

*没错，我们总是以为，我们会找到一个自己很爱很爱的人。
可是後来，当我们猛然回首，我们才会发觉自己曾经多么天真。
假如从来没有开始，你怎么知道自己会不会很爱很爱那个人呢？
其实，很爱很爱的感觉，是要在一起经历了许多事情之後才会发现的。
或许每个人都希望能够找到自己心目中百分之百的伴侣，
但是你有没有想过在你身边会不会早已经有人默默对你付出很久了，只是你没发 觉而已呢？
所以，还是仔细看看身边的人吧！
他或许已经等你很久喽！

That’s the reason! Most people have the mindset that you will be able to find your dream partner. Eventually, you will realize how foolish you are. If you have not try dating with before, how would you know you will not fall in love with the person? Actually, the power of love can only be discovered when you have been through ups and downs with your partner. Maybe everyone still hopes to find their desired soul mate. But have you ever think of the people who have been contributing a lot for you and you have no sense of their feelings? Stop being oblivious!  Maybe the person has been waiting for a long time for you.

*当你爱一个人的时候，爱到八分绝对刚刚好。
所有的期待和希望都只有七八分；剩下两三分用来爱自己。
When you are in love with someone, love them up to eight marks. All your hopes and desires are only worth eight marks. Leave the remaining marks for yourself.

如果你还继续爱得更多，很可能会给对方沉重的压力，让彼此喘不过气来， 完全丧失了爱情的乐趣。
If you love the person to the max, you will only tire the both of you out. By then, all love between the two of you will be gone.
*所以请记住，
喝酒不要超过六分醉，
吃饭不要超过七分饱，
爱一个人不要超过八分
Remember, do not be more than sixty percent drunk, eat only to be seventh full, love someone only up to eight marks.

*那天朋友问我：到底该怎么做才算是爱一个人呢？
我笑著跟他说：其实每个人的爱情观都不一样，说对了叫开导，但就怕说错反倒变成误导。那就糟糕了！

There was this time when a friend asked me a question, “What does it takes to love a person?” I smiled and said, “Actually, different person have different perspective. If you give the good advice is called inspiration. If you give the wrong advice is called misinterpretation. If that happens, the situation will get worse!

*如果你也正在为爱迷惘，或许下面这段话可以给你一些启示：
If you are still doubtful about love, here are some advices for you,
爱一个人，要了解，也要开解；
Loving someone needs you to be understanding and consoling,
要道歉，也要道谢；
Knows when to apologize and be thankful,
要认错，也要改错；
Knows when to admit your mistakes and change them,
要体贴，也要体谅；
To be caring and gentle,
是接受，而不是忍受；
Accept not tolerant,
是宽容，而不是纵容；
Forgiving not giving in,
是支持，而不是支配；
Supportive not controlling,
是慰问，而不是质问；
Asking not interrogating,
是倾诉，而不是控诉；
Telling not yelling,
是难忘，而不是遗忘；
Unforgettable not forgetful,
是彼此交流，而不是凡事交代；
It’s to exchange feelings and not answering to each other,
是为对方默默祈求，
Pray for each other ,
而不是向对方诸多要求；
And not asking favours from each other,
可以浪漫，但不要浪费；
Can be romantic but not wasteful,
可以随时牵手，但不要随便分手。
Hold hands anytime but not breaking up easily.

So I believe this love, relationship and dating thesis will defintely enriching your attitute towards on handling and maintaining a blissful and happy relationship. So stay true to yourself and may you find your true love as in those fairy tales. Do send in your love story in order to be feature in Lovebirds.