13 Bad Habits That Will Scare Any Nice Guy Away From Dating You

Bad habits that scared man awayAre you a single lady or have been constantly searching for a nice guy to date? But for some reasons all your moves in the dating scene seems not to be working and you’ve been putting the blame on the guy. The truth is that you could’ve some bad habits that are scaring men away from you and you might not be even aware of it.

Fortunately for you, you are not alone and you have the opportunity to change your bad habits. Here are the thirteen bad habits that might making you single and prevent you from getting the nice guy you truly deserve.

The 13 Bad Habits From a Woman That Even The Nicest Guy Would Not Want to Date

  1. Nagging and bickering with over every single issue will make him irritated.  Even the nicest guy will think, if you are doing this now, what you will do when you become a couple.
  2. Criticizing on his outfit and fashion sense whenever he picks to go out will make him feel that you will be doing a major makeover on him once he becomes your man.
  3. Smoking or drinking excessively when he does not share any of your bad habits. Some men simply do not like smoker’s breath and hate to kiss smokers, while some just don’t want anything to do with women that drink excessively.
  4. Trying to change his surroundings without his permission. Do not go to a man’s house and start rearranging things. Men have a specific way they organize things and when you impose your form of organization on them, it’ll drives them crazy.
  5. Answering the phone followed by talking and giggling with your friends when you are on a date with him will make the guy feel neglected or unimportant. There is nothing wrong with your friends calling you, but be courteous enough to put your phone on vibrate or turn it off and just focus your time on him.
  6. Women have the bad habit of being uncertain when it comes to making decisions. Denigrating his choice of food or restaurant when you go out to eat after he made the decision is not a good idea.
  7. Giving him a picture of you to carry around when he not even sure the two of you are item yet.
  8. Telling him you love him after just a couple of dates will make him run the other way. Calling him almost every day and wanting to see him every minutes is a show of dependency. Men hates to be tied down. There is a time for everything, and telling him you love him too soon or become too dependent on him will turn any nice guy off.
  9. Moving your stuff into a man’s apartment or personal space without being invited is a turnoff to man. In other words, even if you eventually want to live with a man you are dating; don’t move your stuff into his house without him asking you to move in. He might not be able to adapt to your sudden presence in his house and might take it as an invasion to his privacy.
  10. Giving him driving instruction or directions every single time you go somewhere. Don’t be a driving instructor. If you don’t like the way he drives, you can suggest that you drive him in your car.
  11. Calling him when you are intoxicated. Don’t call him when you are so drunk that you may not be able to remember what you will say on the phone. Moreover he may get the impression that you are a lush.
  12. Cursing like a sailor and thinking it is cool or funny. Most men do not like to date women who like to spew obscenities. Their concern may be what kind of language you will teach their kids if things ever got to the point of him marrying you.
  13. Teasing him and leading him on sexually when you know that you will never let him make love to you. Men know when you are a tease and will leave you alone to play your teasing games with someone else.

So are the above the reasons for you still being the single lady? Well, most nice guy wouldn’t show their dislikes or let you know their thoughts straight away. So if you realize that he is slowly reducing his dating sessions with you, your bad habits might just proved too much for him. Why not reflect on yourself and change those bad habits into irresistible attributes that make man committed to you.

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2 Comments

  • January 22nd, 2009 6:22 am

    These are great tips Lob :-) Very good points!

    Melina x

    http://theartofbeingfeminine.blogspot.com/

  • February 4th, 2009 6:47 am

    Hi LoB, I just have to comment on this one… let’s see, #4, A man should not do this to a woman either! Something I just hate is when a man comes over and the first thing he does is change my radio station to one he likes better.

    Uugh! And then he doesn’t change it back when he leaves. I feel like he doesn’t honor my space and possessions. It’s silly, I know, but it makes me dump the guy, ON THE SPOT! OK, now #5. My sister would do this, go out with me and talk on the phone the whole time to someone else. I finally had to divorce her from my life and I’m much happier. She did not value or respect me.

    #7, Oh No! I did this! I thought it would make him miss me. #8…Yes, I admit it…I’ve done this too. Shame on me. And yes, you can see the smoke as they run the other way…gone, gone, gone…for good! Oh well, I’ll try to do better the next time! #9 This was so funny in the movie, “How to lose a man in 10 days.” And yes, I agree to everything else too. Thanks for a fun post. Take care, Carol Jean

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