Wouldn’t it be amazing if all men in the world are faithful and stick to only one partner? Imagine all the good men being snatched up and other women will have totally no chance with them.

You wouldn’t want the above to be true if you haven’t got a good man yet right. But are you also sick and tired of cheating partners? Do you really understand the cruel truth behind it? Can you recalled what the reason your partner told you when you caught him cheating?

After you have read this short article, you will agree with me the reason why men have affairs.

Yes, we have our reason to have affairs; sadly to say there is more than one reason to that and trust me they are all true. Wait, don’t scorn me yet, I’m not finding excuses for our action- read on to give us a chance to justify ourselves.

It takes two to make a love affair and a man’s meat is too often a woman’s poison”
-William Somerset Maugham

We have to blame it on the likes of sexual attraction, companionship, excitement and curiosity. They all play a part in our wrongdoing. They are partner in crimes too. Affairs are often being glamorized in modern movies, romance novels, TV dramas and shows. You ask anyone on the street and they are fascinated and titillated by hearing about others affairs. They love them especially those involved are public figures or celebrities.

Sexy images of women are often portrayed as sex objects in advertising and marketing campaigns and this strongly concluded that sex do sells. Men have since drilled in the concept that a procession of sexy women in their lives is the route of having a good life.

But the matter of fact, it not only the men who are having their cup of teas, women are enjoying them too. Women seem to be better cheaters than men in most occasions: they are better at keeping their affairs under wraps and generally have an agenda for their infidelity.

The 10 True Reasons Even Women Will Agree Why Men Have Affairs

1. Sex, sex and sex
   Yes, it’s inevitable that this is the top reason why men strayed out for another piece of the meat when his mouth is already full. He wishes to have more sex. But sometimes this could be due to lack of sex in his current relationship.
2. Sexual Variation
   Even you’ll get bored when you’ve the same type of food every single week, three times a day. Trying different food bring a whole new of vibrant and excitement into the fantasy of men. It’s like giving them different sexual experiences with different partners.
3. To Proof A Point
   Men wanted to proof that even when he is attached, he still have the attractiveness to seduce other women. He wants to show to his partner that she has made a great choice and she better cherish it.
4. The Thrill of the Process
   What’s special in a relationship for men? It’s not the commitment or the romance. It’s the thrill of trying to get what he wanted. Men love to chase after a woman and he enjoyed the whole process.
5. Temptation / Opportunistic Sex
   You can’t blame a rat if you put the cheese in front of him, don’t you. Men can’t handle temptation well. It’s our weak point and we can’t pass it up.
6. Noble Causes
   This might sound lame, but if a man can’t make up his mind to leave a women for whatever reason, he would rather wish the woman hate him and leave him instead. This may lessen the pain for the woman. Noble indeed!
7. Sweet Vengeance
   Well, revenge is sweet isn’t it? What’s a better way to get back at their partner for whatever reason than to cheat on her!
8. Justified Privileges
   Men feel the need to be rewarded. They feel that since they are the sole bread winner and the have work hard, they should have the privilege of it.
9. Sexual addiction
   This is much like a bad habit. No love is involved but he just wanted sex with any type of women.
10. Trying to Escape and Avoid
    Men tend to escape a relationship when it gets tough. They wish to pick up new stones yet still holding on their own stone refusing to let go even he can’t carry them anymore. They think everything is going to be alright if he just doesn’t think of them anymore.

No matter how much I tried to put on reasons which seem to be just, there is no perfect reason to cover up the act. Keeping an on-going affair is a juggling act of covering up lies and dealing with associated guilt feelings.

You have the reason why men have affairs now, so look again if anyone of his reason is here? If your partner is not going to change, the only option is to leave or divorced.

If you have been cheating, stop now! And if you haven’t, don’t go there. It’s true that curiosity really kills the cat.