Ever think that chemistry in relationships just develop by itself?  You may not be able to create chemistry where none exists, but if there an initial spark present, there’s plenty of way you could do to fuel the flames.

But first you need to understand what chemistry is. Most people call chemistry a sense of reaction that the two of you feel when both of you are together. It makes both of you perfectly comfortable with each other and has a strong physical attraction for each other. Deep down, it usually involves having the same beliefs, dreams, likes and dislikes or even habits.

Love is a matter of chemistry, but Sex is a matter of physics”

Here are some ways to create an exploding chemistry reaction!

• Build up the Relationship!
  A good chemistry required a strong rapport behind it to withstand test and time. To build up the rapport, look for a common conversation topic that both of you can really bond over. It should be something pleasant and relax. From the conversation, you could find out the common interest and predilection between the two of you.
• Humorous is the Key!
  Laughter is not only a good way to break the ice but also a good way to make both of you at ease and comfortable. You don’t need to be a comedian or keep on trying to think of joke to please. Just be natural and have humor in your own style. As long as you don’t offend your date, you could be pretty alright here.
• Make “Adrenaline” your Best Friend!
  It’s said that couples who met in an exciting situation end to find each other more attractive rather than those who met under normal circumstances. This is because the brain associates any excitement with the person you are with at that time. You can make use of this by planning a date that will get the adrenaline pumping like going for a roller coaster ride, bungee jumping or even watch a horror movie.
• Be the Real You!
  You won’t have real chemistry in relationship if you are not trying to be your real self. Rather than keeping your opinions to yourself or trying to become the perfect person you think your date will like, you should make it a point to share your thoughts and feelings about important issues and be yourself. This is better for you in gauging if both of you are suitable for each other and won’t surprise your date in the long run.

Chemistry in relationships may be mysterious and hard to control, but that doesn’t mean you can’t help it along a little. Just make sure you build up a good rapport, throw in a little humor and excitement and you’ll be off to a good start. Do you have better ways to create chemistry in relationship? Share with us now!

*Adrenaline- A hormone secreted by the adrenal medulla that is released into the bloodstream in response to physical or mental stress, as from fear or injury. It initiates many bodily responses, including the stimulation of heart action and an increase in blood pressure, metabolic rate, and blood glucose concentration. Also called adrenaline.