Ever think that the pub or a club is the best way to pick up a woman? But for some reason, every attempt you make with the woman just fail? What we can observe from here is that women may not feel safe in places like the pub or club. Women tends to raise their protective shield when a guy tries to approach them as women knew men has only one agenda on their head.
So there are others places that you can meet women and be more successful with them. These places make them feel complacent and more open to your hidden approach.
- Friend’s Party
One of the best places to meet girls is on common ground. If you see a girl at a friend’s party then it is likely that she knows someone you know. This instantly makes her feel more comfortable around you because you have something in common.
- Coffee Bar
This is a good place to meet girls because many times people who are in coffee bar are there to be relaxed and just hang out. Approaching someone when they are relaxed will probably give you better results because they are in a friendly state and won’t mind exchanging a few words with someone.
- Community Activities or Events
This is another bit of common ground, and more importantly neutral ground. A friend’s party may have some politics involved in it, but a community activity like a workshop, play, or fund raiser for the community is totally neutral. Not only is this one of the better places to meet girls but the girls you will also be sharing the same focus. It’s also a good chance for you to show off your good heart as you will be doing things to help out your community!
Just like the coffee bar, people here are relaxed and are probably doing the things they enjoy doing. Approach a girl by striking up a conversation regarding what she’s doing. For instances, if you are also walking a dog, and you spotted her too with her dog, you can talk to her about that. Keep it light, and come off as unassuming as possible. Remember, she probably visits this park often. That means you will have many chances to talk to her.
- Shopping Mall
When you spotted a girl, shopping at the mall, you can approach her to ask her to assist you in selecting a birthday present for your friend. She could also be one of those sales personnel that you’re hitting on. Get on a conversation on her fashion sense and praise her on her great gift selecting skill. Offer to buy her a drink as a token of appreciation.
There are plenty of other places to meet girls. These five places are very convenient and near you. So next time, when you are at these places, you can try approaching girls with much more confidence.