The female orgasm is the peak of a woman’s sexual arousal. It’s the involuntary rhythmic contracting of the lower pelvic muscles, and sometimes causes spasms in other parts of the body, such as the limbs. The female orgasm doesn’t normally produce any fluid like a man’s, but some women experience what is called “female ejaculation,” a gushing of fluid upon orgasm.

Women might be able to fake orgasms. But men can fake whole relationships.”

The result of an orgasm is usually a feeling of relaxation, thought to be connected to the release of prolactin into the bloodstream. Oxytocin, another chemical released during arousal and orgasm, is thought to be responsible for pleasant feelings during and after sex, including the sense of feeling emotionally close to your partner. Scientists are trying to figure out if this chemical is responsible for human partnering habits.

Teasing a girl is no easy feat and in order to execute it correctly, you need to have confidence and technique. You don’t want to be labeled as a jerk or snob for the process either. But how can you be different from the truck loads of boring guys that tried to suck up to the woman?

One way is to learn how to tease her in exactly the right way — a way that shows her that you are confident, funny and, of course, a challenge. Or, to put it simply, just the kind of guy she’d love to see again.