Men can be chocolate cake (or cookies, ice cream, pie, you get my drift.) You can’t just eat a baby piece and be satisfied. You just want to keep eating until you are satisfied but once you realize that you have eaten the whole cake, you begin to regret it.
Women have this problem with men because they have the tendency to smother the one they love. With enough smothering you realize maybe it would have been better to eat a box of cookies and go to the gym to work off the calories.
Don’t smother each other. No one can grow in the shade.